Friday, November 30, 2007

The Beginning of the Christmas Season

What follows is not any of my own words, but a reprint of a story from readers digest.  I share this with you so that each of the readers can share the joy of the Christmas Season.  Whether you celebrate Christmas or not is not the issue here, and as you read the story you will see how apt that comment is.  Enjoy, and your comments are welcome.


MY FRIDAY STORY
 
The Ivory and Gold Tablecloth
By Howard C. Schade (About the author) This story was originally written by Howard C. Schade for the December 1954 issue of Reader's Digest.  It is a fitting way to get an early start on the upcoming Christmas season.


At Christmas time, men and women everywhere gather in their churches to wonder anew at the greatest miracle the world has ever known. But the story I like best to recall was not a huge miracle -- not exactly.


It happened to a pastor who was very young. His church was very old. Once, long ago, it had flourished. Famous men had preached from its pulpit, prayed before its altar. Rich and poor alike had worshipped there and built it beautifully. Now, the good days had passed from the section of town where it stood. But the pastor and his young wife believed in their run-down church. They felt that with hard work and lots of faith they could get it in shape. Together they went to work.


But, late in December, a severe storm whipped through the river valley, and the worst blow fell on the church -- a huge chunk of rain-soaked plaster fell out of the inside wall just behind the altar. Sorrowfully the pastor and his wife swept away the mess, but they couldn't hide the ragged hole.


The pastor looked at it and had to remind himself quickly, "Thy will be done!" But his wife wept, "Christmas is only two days away!"


That afternoon the dispirited couple attended the auction held for the benefit of a youth group. The auctioneer opened a box and shook out of its folds a gloriously beautiful, very ornately sewn, gold and ivory lace tablecloth.


It was a magnificent item, nearly 15 feet long. But it, too, dated from a long vanished era. Who, today, had any use for such a thing? There were a few halfhearted bids. Then the pastor was seized with what he thought was a great idea.


He bid it in for $6.50.


He carried the glorious gold and ivory lace cloth back to the church and very carefully put it up on the wall behind the altar. It completely hid the hole! And the extraordinary beauty of its shimmering handwork cast a fine, holiday glow over the chancel. It was a great triumph. Happily he went back to preparing his Christmas sermon.


Just before noon on the day of Christmas Eve, as the pastor was opening the church, he noticed a woman standing in the cold at the bus stop. "The bus won't be here for 40 minutes!" he called, and invited her into the church to get warm.


She told him that she had come from the city that morning to be interviewed for a job as governess to the children of one of the wealthy families in town but she had been turned down. A Jewish war refugee, her English was imperfect.


The woman sat down in a pew and chafed her hands and rested. After a while she dropped her head and prayed. She looked up and saw the great gold and ivory cloth. She rose suddenly and walked up the steps of the chancel.


She looked at the beautiful tablecloth with remembering eyes.


The pastor smiled and started to tell her about the storm damage, but she didn't seem to listen. She took up a fold of the cloth and lovingly rubbed it between her fingers, tears welled in her kind eyes. But they were happy tears of recognition.


"It is mine!" she said. "It is my banquet cloth!" She lifted up a corner and showed the surprised pastor that there were initials monogrammed on it. "My husband had the cloth made especially for me in Brussels! There could not be another like it."


For the next few minutes the woman and the pastor talked excitedly together. She explained that she was Viennese; that being Jews, she and her husband wanted to flee from the Nazis. They were advised to go separately. Her husband put her on a train for Switzerland. They planned that he would join her as soon as he could arrange to ship their household goods across the border. She never saw him again. Later she heard that he had died in a concentration camp.


"I have always felt that it was my fault -- to leave without him," she said. "Perhaps these years of wandering have been my punishment!" The pastor tried to comfort her and urged her to take the beautiful cloth with her. But she refused saying, "no, no, the cloth has found it's way to you. You need it. It has a purpose here. I want you to have it. I am happy knowing you have it."


She gazed lovingly up at the magnificent gold and ivory lace cloth, then quietly went away.


As the church began to fill on Christmas Eve, it was clear that the magnificent cloth was going to be a great success. It had been skillfully designed to look its best by candlelight.


The glorious gold and ivory lace cloth actually glowed in the candlelight! It cast lovely fine designs on the walls and ceiling of the church. Everyone looked around in wonderment, and a tranquil ambiance was cast over all.


After the service, the pastor stood at the doorway. Many people told him that the church looked more beautiful than ever before.


From the generous donations that were given, a few days later the pastor had the local jeweler who was also the clock-and-watch repairman come to repair the church chimes.


The repairman's gentle middle-aged face drew into a look of great astonishment! As if in a trance he walked right up to the beautiful cloth and looked intently!


"It is strange," he said in his soft accent. "Many years ago my wife - God rest her -- and I owned such a cloth. My wife put it on the table" -- and here he gave a big smiled -- "for holidays and when the Rabbi came to dinner."


The pastor suddenly became very excited. He told the jeweler about the woman who had been in church to get warm, saw the cloth, and recognized it to be hers! The startled jeweler clutched the pastor's arm. "Can it be?" he said through desperate tears.


Together the two got in touch with the family who had interviewed the women for the governess position, got her address, then they both drove to the city.


The jeweler knocked on the heavy, weathered, door. As it opened, there stood his beloved wife. The many years of separation were immediately washed away by their blissfully tears, as they held each other in loving embraces, never to be parted again. True love seems to find a way.


To all who hear this story, the joyful purpose of the storm was to knocked a hole in the wall of the church.


So Dear Ones, the next time something knocks a hole in your dreams, your goals - Just remember to have enough faith, enough belief in those dreams and goals, to lovingly and creatively hang your own brilliant lace cloth over the temporary mar. Then watch the miracles come. 

Tuesday, November 27, 2007

What Really Matters?

I am not one that people call a creative writer, but sometimes the headings don't always fit exactly.  I have been confronted with a great many things over the course of the last few days, and I will tell you that conclusions that I thought I had reached have been called into question.


What really matters?  I think this is a question that is not asked enough by people.  In a world where the tanget is anything but tangential, and the exception has become the rule, I think people are not stopping long enough to figure out what really matters.


What really matters?  I think this is a question that causes people to look inside themselves; and while no one is afraid of a horror movie, and haunted houses have become a joke, magic is questioned by the magician, and miracles are thought not to exist.  People refuse to look at themselves because they are afraid of what they might find.


What really matters?  I think is a question that calls for responsibility and reason.  In a world where both of these are seen as someone elses problem and people look to groups for thier classification.  I wonder if they truly know it for themselves, or even care to look.


What really matters?  Is a question that falls in the reality and philisophical worlds and in both cases the answers are as important.  They can frame the world in a view, give the ability to set priorities and make sense of what seems senseless.


What really matters?  I now know what it is for me.


What really matters?


 

Thursday, November 22, 2007

A Happy Thanksgiving

Recently I have noticed that this country has forgotten that a certain holiday exists. I was angered at first by this, but then I realized that this was nothing more than the average person being average and just acting the way that the average person does.

See this holiday "Thanksgiving" is a "national holiday". It requires a heart, a mind, a faith and a subtext of some patriotic feeling, which I realize now in this country, is too much to ask for from the average person. This is a country that the average person wants to throw away individual freedom because they wish to shirk on individual responsibility. This is a country now where we want the government to "give us" hand outs, "level a playing field", and "get even with others". This is now a country where people feel that "freedom of" means "freedom from" and so instead of openness and choice being the words of the day we continue to move towards a politically correct and washed society with "fall breaks", "moments of silence", "spring holiday", "fall festivals" and "winter holidays". These of course have replaced the "according to the average person" close minded names such "Thanksgiving break", "Prayer in School", "Easter Holiday", "Halloween", and of course "Christmas break".

Well, I will tell you one thing on this day of Thanksgiving I have not lost the spirit, and so I am going to tell you right now what I am thankful for and why. I am thankful for the average person, because they have allowed me to realize just how far this country has fallen. I am thankful for my independence and freedoms because I am allowed to speak out and say what I feel. I am thankful for the men and women who fight overseas so that we here in this country can celebrate this country and what it means. I am thankful for my faith and family who even though at times set limitations on what I can or cannot do, support me unconditionally and love me for who I am. I am thankful for those that had the idea of putting together a country where there is a freedom of choice, and then helped make some of the more difficult choices. But most of all I am thankful for all of my friends, co-workers, countrymen (sorry but countryperson is too damn politically correct for me), countrywomen. Because even though we might disagree, we can have a debate, voice our opinions and not have to fight a war or injure each other to increase knowledge.

However at the end of all this I will say one more thing. Next year, if the Christmas music and setups go up in the stores before the Thanksgiving holiday has passed, I think we as a people need to remind those out there that are leading these corporations that if anyone has a reason to be "Thankful" it is them, and glossing over the one holiday that can't be commercialized so much that the meaning goes away only shows them to be the shallow, self centered, out sourcing, modern day slave drivers that they truly are. It is time to have a heart, and use your heart and stores and places of power to say "Thanks".

It really isn't that hard.

Have A Happy Thanksgiving

Recently I have noticed that this country has forgotten that a certain holiday exists.  I was angered at first by this, but then I realized that this was nothing more than the average person being average and just acting the way that the average person does.


See this holiday "Thanksgiving" is a "national holiday".  It requires a heart, a mind, a faith and a subtext of some patriotic feeling, which I realize now in this country, is too much to ask for from the average person.  This is a country that the average person wants to throw away individual freedom because they wish to shirk on individual responsibility.  This is a country now where we want the government to "give us" hand outs, "level a playing field", and "get even with others".  This is now a country where people feel that "freedom of" means "freedom from" and so instead of openness and choice being the words of the day we continue to move towards a politically correct and washed society with "fall breaks", "moments of silence", "spring holiday", "fall festivals" and "winter holidays".  These of course have replaced the "according to the average person" close minded names such "Thanksgiving break", "Prayer in School", "Easter Holiday", "Halloween", and of course "Christmas break". 


Well, I will tell you one thing on this day of Thanksgiving I have not lost the spirit, and so I am going to tell you right now what I am thankful for and why.  I am thankful for the average person, because they have allowed me to realize just how far this country has fallen.  I am thankful for my independence and freedoms because I am allowed to speak out and say what I feel.  I am thankful for the men and women who fight overseas so that we here in this country can celebrate this country and what it means.  I am thankful for my faith and family who even though at times set limitations on what I can or cannot do, support me unconditionally and love me for who I am.  I am thankful for those that had the idea of putting together a country where there is a freedom of choice, and then helped make some of the more difficult choices.  But most of all I am thankful for all of my friends, co-workers, countrymen (sorry but countryperson is too damn politically correct for me), countrywomen.  Because even though we might disagree, we can have a debate, voice our opinions and not have to fight a war or injure each other to increase knowledge.


However at the end of all this I will say one more thing.  Next year, if the Christmas music and setups go up in the stores before the Thanksgiving holiday has passed, I think we as a people need to remind those out there that are leading these corporations that if anyone has a reason to be "Thankful" it is them, and glossing over the one holiday that can't be commercialized so much that the meaning goes away only shows them to be the shallow, self centered, out sourcing, modern day slave drivers that they truly are.  It is time to have a heart, and use your heart and stores and places of power to say "Thanks".


It really isn't that hard.

Thursday, November 15, 2007

A Moment of Clarity

Very rarely do I come on here and talk about business, but today is one of those days.  In a moment of clarity, I have realized something is now truer than ever before, and that is the statement that you "Get What You Pay For".  Now I know before everyone starts talking about how much of a cliché this is, I just want to finish this point I promise it will not take long.


Today people think that the specials and deals are better than ever.  They feel that they are going to get something truly special because of the great amount of competition out there, and "once in a while this happens".  However, for the most part what you have is a bunch of businesses and people that are willing to give away a vastly inferior product with a smile on their face and then stab you in the back with it.  I have also noticed that people are using the word FREE more and putting something in small print underneath it like "with a paid subscription" or "with a repair" or "with qualified lead".  If that is the case then it is not "FREE".


Now people and businesses that are truly doing something FREE are getting lumped in with the crap that is out there and that weakens their case dramatically.  So all I am doing right now is sending out a warning to everyone that reads this blog.  When you see something that is too good to be true, it probably is, and remember above all else, "You Get What You Pay For."


 

Tuesday, November 13, 2007

A Welcome Back... Another Thought

First I would like to state how wonderful it is to be back blogging again.  I believe that the internet blog is the last place where true open communication can truly take place, and that is an imperative.  So now that the pleasantries are done, let's get done to business.  This entry will make much more sense if you have read a friend of mine's most recent blog which can be found at the following link.


http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&friendID=79882820&blogID=328043510&Mytoken=218241CD-F781-48B6-8FED0ED5EB0B94602473330


Once you have read this then you will understand what this entry has in common.


I was sitting on my back deck drinking a beer with some of my brother's friends.  I had been waxing philosophically (finally used it in a sentence) about the existence of God and my personal religious beliefs.  It was during this that one of my brother's friends asked me a question that at first almost knocked me out of my chair.  But as I thought more and more about it I realized that an answer was there and I am going to share that question and answer with you.


The friend asked "Why do you believe in Jesus Christ?  Now don't give me religious answers unless they can be backed up by hard facts.  I want to know from a logical standpoint, why you have faith in Jesus Christ."


To say that I was flummoxed (another word I have been waiting to use) would be an understatement.  I was being asked to prove a logical, fact based reason for why I had a belief in Jesus Christ.  Taken from me were the basic religious standards and verse answers that you are taught in Vacation Bible School or Parish School of Religion.  Gone were the imperial truth arguments based on the Beatitudes or the Sermon on the Mount.  Even reaching back into areas of the Old Testament where logic and physical evidence was not allowed.  I was worried, and then like a ton of bricks it hit me.


I came back with the following, and I can't remember all the points to quote exactly, so I will be rephrasing the statement below.


From a purely logical statement I believe in Jesus Christ because no one else makes sense.  I mean let's look at the course of world history.  There have been millions of people that have been born and affected the fabric of the life we lead, but only a select few are considered timeless from a standpoint of the thought and lessons they taught, the inventions that they created and the people they affected.  We can look at Di Vinci, Newton, Galileo, Socrates, Plato, Einstein, and even in modern day Stephen Hawking.  Millions of people have come and gone that were influential in how we structure life, but only a few are timeless like Napoleon, Alexander the Great, Cease, Franklin Roosevelt, Churchill, Stalin and Elizabeth II.  Millions of people have been popular and made people walk the streets in celebration or jubilation, but only a select few are considered timeless.  Michael Jordan, Neil Armstrong, Hulk Hogan, Henry Aaron and Buss Aldren.  Millions have come and gone but only a few were leaders that forced a solid change in thought and drove the future based on their own beliefs.  Martin Luther King, Jr., Pope John Paul II, Confucius and Mohammed.


But there is one man that did all those things, he worked the crowds in Jerusalem to the point of jubilantly lining the streets upon his arrival, he walked with friends and influenced people that were considered the leaders of their time.  His thoughts and words sparked a revolution in thought and idealism that was both new and different at the time.  He was both a teacher and a preacher, and had a title of leadership over people.  He was as some would say an entertainer and others a man of great miracles.  He was willing to sacrifice all of who he was for his ideals and beliefs all the way to the end.


Still I felt at this point that there was something missing, and then as if inspired the following came into mind.  This one man is written of in all the major works of religion of his time and after.  The Jewish people do not state he did not exist, and even state he was a great prophet, the Muslim people do not deny his existence either and in some cases refer to him as the greatest of the prophets before Mohammed.  His birth is referred to in both the interpretations of the Koran (not spelled in the Arabic way) and the bible and in both cases it is a virgin birth.  There is a calendar that is simply based upon the end of his life, and that calendar is one that is utilized by many people in the world today.  There is not a single person who has been more influential in the world of religion, or has affected more people's lives.


Simply put, I do not believe that human beings are capable of making that completely up, and nor do I believe that it is all just a strange coincidence.  The simple fact is that I have faith for many reasons, but if I were steeped in logic, and had to look at who the single most influential person was of our history, there is not a single human being that comes close to Jesus Christ.